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Unsure what to do in this dating situation

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Question - (26 December 2016) 3 Answers - (Newest, 3 January 2017)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I've been seeing a girl for the past month or so.

We have very similar ambitions, goals and interests and both really like each other.

Currently our dates consist of dinner drinks and dog walks as well as long phone calls.

We've met each other's families. However I'm not used to chasing girls and I don't really know how to take it to the next stage.

It's her birthday soon and I was considering taking her away for a few days.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (3 January 2017):

aunt honesty agony auntI think it is a lovely idea, however staying away together might be rushing it for her. It has only just been over a month, and the idea off spending a few nights alone with you might scare her a little. Maybe you should talk to her about it before you book anything.

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A female reader, [?]BitterSweetFinale;[?] United States +, writes (29 December 2016):

[?]BitterSweetFinale;[?] agony auntI'd definitely go for it, in fact that's actually a good gesture, I'm sure she'd love going out for her birthday. Make it a bit romantic, caress her face and go for the kiss. Do it with ease and gently, I'm sure she'll drive right in. Lol! Take it easy, have a great time, you both seem happy. :)

More power to ya. ;D

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2016):

If you know you both really like each other than you are fine. Shes probably waiting for you to make the move. Just go for the kiss one of the times you are out alone. You dont want her to think you guys lost the flare but dont rush it either. Take it slow and see where it goes. For the birthday dont miss it and get a present. Something you picked up from conversation with her. Heres that dog poop grabber we talked about on one of the walks cause you hate picking up poop or Pumpkin costume for the dog. Good Luck! P!

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