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anonymous
writes:Boy #1 and Boy #2 are best friends, both completely besotted with me. For one I cant understand it, I dont feel amazing, even when they tell me so. I'm best friends with Boy #2, and I dated Boy #1, which really made Boy #2 sad. After a little while I dumped Boy #1, because there was no 'spark', that excitement when you kiss. I didnt think it was fair on him, so I quit it. But now I'm starting to regret dumping him, and I'm getting paranoid about him liking one of my friends instead of me. The fact that I went out with Boy #1 started to get between Boy #1 and Boy #2's best friend relationship, and I feel guilty about getting between them. It's confusing me so much that now I'm starting to feel sexually attracted to Boy #2, even though he's NOTHING I'd ever go for. I think I'm just a tease, I so dont want to be though. Am I just, y'know, randy? I dont even understand my own actions! God. Help me?
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reader, cseame  +, writes (28 January 2007):
 Calm down
you must take a breath and relax because
you have to figure out everything
have you ever heard of the saying
having what you can't have?
i believe it somehow gets to this point...after you dumped Boy #1 you believe that you can never have him again which makes you want him....
I'm not sure whether your with Boy #1 or Boy#2 right now and i'm not sure whether you are still best friends with either of them
but you must figure which one you like
I believe the reason why you must be getting a bit confused is because of lack of communication you must tell Boy#1 and Boy#2 that you feel guilty and sorry that you effected their relationship..at least you might feel a bit better
Still i think that you should just let them both go
they will be able to patch their relationship up after awhile as long as you give them both some time
and while their doing that you can relax and just get them both out of your mind
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