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Two days after fooling around together he got back with his ex! I feel used!

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Question - (22 May 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 22 May 2007)
A female Trinidad and Tobago age 30-35, *@bygrl07 writes:

ok...well..i met this guy awhile ago...and after getting to know each other..we realized that we had feelings for each other..but we decided ignore them because he was currently in a relationship with one of my really close friends. this guy and i stopped talking...and so did me and my friend over personal reasons.

Recently the boy and my "ex-friend" had a fight and broke up. the boy and i started back talkin and one day i went to see him. we ended up doing everything else but have actual sex....everything was perfect...until two days after he and his ex got back together.

im feeling really used. what should i do?

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A female reader, nicola79 United Kingdom +, writes (22 May 2007):

nicola79 agony auntit sounds to me that he got what he wanted off you sweety and now hes dropped you like a brick. i really hope if you did go all the way that you used something?

you still have a lot of growing up to do and i know you must be hurt right now but you will get over it love.

put it to the back of your mind and carry on with enjoying your life. if you see this boy,dont be nasty to him because he willlove it and he will know that he has hurt you. say hello,smile and carry on with what you were doing, by doing this he will be gobsmacked. also it will make you look better than him.

i hope everything works out for you.xxxxxxxxxxxxx

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A male reader, DV1 United States +, writes (22 May 2007):

DV1 agony auntAll you can do at this point is pick up the pieces and move on. You'll find someone.

DV1

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A female reader, Jendorset United Kingdom +, writes (22 May 2007):

Well, you feel used because you were. Its obviously the ex-friend he loves and wants to be with so just stay away from him.

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