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Trapped in the 'friend zone'

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Question - (8 March 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 8 March 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Alright guys, basically there is a girl in my year at school i really like and we are quite close mates. Anyway, someone hacked her email account and sent loads off ppl an email sayin we were goin out when we weren't. She said to one guy, "i'm definately not seeing him, he's like a brother to me". She always picks the wrong type of guys who treat her like crap, but then ends up being mates with them. WTF? Anyway, how do i stop her seeing me as a brother or mate and make her see we'd be perfect together. I'm trapped in the friend zone. :L

Thanks for your help in advance, any comments really appreciated.

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A female reader, Blod United Kingdom +, writes (8 March 2010):

Blod agony auntI don't think there's much you can do to be honest. If someone sees you in a brother/sister kind of way then that's that. You can't really change it. I think the best thing for you to do would be to talk to her. She might have just said this to stop the rumours that you two were going out. So try to discuss what's happened with her and find out how she feels. Go from there. Hope I've helped.

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A male reader, Kenj United Kingdom +, writes (8 March 2010):

Kenj agony auntWelcome to the world of dating. With some girls you have to get a good balance of being a jerk and being a nice caring guy.

She could be embarrased about it all going public, or she could be telling the truth.

Either way you can find out if she likes you quite easily flirt with other girls when your friend is arround and see if she gets jeleous.

If she does then you know theres more to it and she probalbly has feelings for you, if she doesnt then try making yourself less available to your friend see if she starts calling you.

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A male reader, Playerinrehab Australia +, writes (8 March 2010):

Ahh the friendzone. I was stuck in that all the time when I was in school. Now I can get any girl I want into bed. In my experience the best thing you can do is make your intentions clear before you enter the friendzone. However seeing as your already in the friendzone this is out of the question. What ever you do, don't send her a SMS confessing your feelings! Ask her out Somewhere, perhaps to the movies or any place you like to go, if she asks why tell her you just enjoy being around her. Sometime on the semi-date find a quiet moment and try to establish intimacy, talk about something serious like her dreams for the future and somehow work in a wondrous stare into her eyes, I'f she asks

what your looking at just tell her that you Just enjoy listening to

her. If she says nothing and stares back at you (in an intimate way) tell her you've never really noticed how beautiful she was before. You can figure it out from there young Romeo, if u found this helpfully don't hesitate to MSG me for any more help. If not, sorry I couldn't help out and best of luck!

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