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Tongue-tied around my crush

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Question - (17 July 2014) 3 Answers - (Newest, 20 July 2014)
A male United States age 22-25, *ohn1999 writes:

So I want to start a conversation with a girl but I don't know how to start it. The problem is that I have a little bit of a crush on her and when I try to talk to her I just stare at her and its very weird. Please help me!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2014):

Ahhh that's so cute!!

Okay so if you want to start a conversation practice topics to your self or a friend and find out what makes her interested and get to know what she likes as a girl always likes a boy who is interested in her and not all about them self!!

If u have problems focusing around her that's called LOVE... I'm afraid that this happens and u just have to get use to being around her and getting to know her. Force yourself to talk to her and show her ur not shy! After a while the awkwardness will disappear you just have to give it time and practice.

Good luck! :)

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A female reader, tiakef Jamaica +, writes (18 July 2014):

tiakef agony auntyou sound so cute, ok so you need to relax. try practising by yourself or with a friend. Pick topics beforehand. One good thing you can do is get a new clothing or lucky garment that will boost your confidence.

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A female reader, ImissFuturama United States +, writes (17 July 2014):

ImissFuturama agony auntTake a deep breath, and remind yourself she is only human, and has experienced the same thing talking to a guy she likes. It might even be you. You'll realize it's not nearly as weird as it seems.

You could also try thinking of something unrelated to her before talking to her, or someone else. For example, picture a girl you have no problem talking to in your head (a female friend or just someone you DON'T have a crush on), and pretend it's her. That should distract you from your nervousness, at least momentarily.

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