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Together for two years but lately no affection?

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Question - (22 January 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 27 January 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. We live together and everything. I love him dearly, but in the past three months I have noticed it is very rare for him to ever hug or kiss me. We rarely have sex either and when we do it's noting like it used to be, it's just like it's not satisfying to him. I don't know whats wrong is this normal?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2011):

No. He always has came to me for sex. We have lived with each other since august 2009. This past month he has acted so funny. Like he takes things so serious, when i'm joking around with him. Things just used to be so different, he never wants to kiss me. It really bothers me.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2011):

Looks to me like theres no love left in relationship. Perhaps both of you should do something romantic, like take a vacation , go out to watch a movie.. Maybe you should just talk to him to find out what's wrong, maybe he has a lot of work or stress? It's really hard to say from what you wrote..

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A female reader, angelDlite United Kingdom +, writes (22 January 2011):

angelDlite agony aunthi

you are both the same age? maybe he feels like he has outgrown this relationship or maybe there is something else on his mind. you really need to talk to him about this and ask him is there a problem. can i ask, has he always been the one to initiate the sex and affection or did you and do you still try? how does he seem in the rest of the relationship and the rest of his life? maybe he has a problem that is not related to you or the relationship, but it is having an impact on his sex drive and mood. talk to him

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