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Question - (26 July 2007) 7 Answers - (Newest, 26 August 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 13-15, Prinstion Girl writes:

rite im going out with this boy n i hv snogged him but i havent got off with any 1 .. im 14 n i need help n i want 2 no does any 1 have like any tips or anything 2 help me please thanks

prinstion girl xxx

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A female reader, anonymous08 United Kingdom +, writes (26 August 2008):

anonymous08 agony aunthi i know this sounds extremely bad lol.

but i had my first snog yesterday with a 26 yr old guy in hes car we went to the pictures and i touched hes arm i was tryna build up to it.

then we went out to hes car and chatted i always thought that guys were ment to be romantic he seemed to like punching my leg...

then we chatted for a while and he ended up holding my hand...thsi feeling rushed through me and we ended up kissing on the cheek then we gradually built up to it and it came naturally because id been waiting fot it for so long 4 hours id waited for it.

but i also made him wait which made it better because it came more natural and it was better because wed been building up to it and waitin for so long so i just say make him wai and it will come naturally and ry practising on your arm or back of the hand kkx

good luck...

and the reason it sound bad is because im 14 too

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A female reader, Just a Girl... United Kingdom +, writes (27 July 2007):

Just a Girl... agony auntmaybe its just me but ive always thought that snogging a guy was getting off with them?? at least thats wat ive always thought wen ive snogged someone. xxx im only a bit older than u n ive bin with my guy for 6 months so il just say this:

1. Dnt give him too much, let him earn it, that way you wont feel used, hes keep wanting more n u will not feel pushed. I did dtuff with my bf but only after 4 months did we start having proper sex. it builds trust n plus wen you finally do it it feels great cos youve both been buildin up sorta thing.

2. If he gets everything he wants hell get bored, boys lose intrest pretty quick if its all handed to them on a plate

and number 3? Enjoy the hand holdin and the kissin bit ok, as soon as it gets further you tend to lose all the nice stuff xxx

take care huni xxx S xxx

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A female reader, LISAXXXG United Kingdom +, writes (27 July 2007):

LISAXXXG agony auntYou're only young yet, I remember my first snog with Mark behind the science block but that's another story, you will find that you probably have to kiss a lot of people before you find the one you want to go all the way with but you're 14 and I know that you're ready to explore but just do what feels comfortable to you, you don't have to go the whole way yet, just go around it but be careful still!

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A female reader, Ask me anything Ireland +, writes (27 July 2007):

Firstly dont do anything you dont wanna do!!!

If you do you'll just end up feeling dirty and bad about yourself.

Your only fourteen your still so young, dont be rushing into anything.

But if you do decide to get off with him...well im assuming he's about the same age as you and probably doesnt have much experience either so learn together.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2007):

Don't worry yet you have a lot of time, I would recomend masterbating and exploring what feels good to you, then tell him what you like. You will figure it out.

P.S. your not texting, you can use full words, it will help people understand what you are asking!!

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A female reader, Prinstion Girl  United Kingdom +, writes (26 July 2007):

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Prinstion Girl  agony aunthey thnx tht help a bit but i dont mind if any 1 else has any veiws on tht plx help me thnx prinstion girl xxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2007):

Hey im 15. Listen if your not ready don't push yourself. I know everyone says that but just think about the circumstances. If you really like him and trust him then do. Wait a while, if he's pushing you just tell him your not ready yet. I hope this helps. x

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