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*exyskye
writes:I have been with my partner for 9 years and the sex is great were both up for anything really , but recently a friend of mine had a threesome two girls one man , I know my partner would love it and I definitly would ,but i cant help thinking would i be happy watchin another woman pleasuring my man?? should i just make him watch or would that be cruel?? would it do more harm than good ? views please thankyou xx
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reader, sexyskye +, writes (2 July 2010):
sexyskye is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou everyone especially mr scientist out there mayb I will forget my partner n just go and find a girl he's just came home in such s bad mood x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2010): hahahahahahah Q you are the man!
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reader, TimmD  +, writes (2 July 2010):
 I agree with eyeswideopen. Any doubts, then don't do it.
And q1605... if you can get that published in a medical journal, I'll buy as many rounds as you want at a local bar of your choice while wearing an "I'm with Genius" T-Shirt pointing to YOU.
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reader, pyan  +, writes (2 July 2010):
hi
like others have said if you are happy with what you have and you want to try try but set limits. my wife and i had done it a few time but only on hoilday. i love to see her with another guy and it keeps us charged up. we have fried ffm but she was un sure but loves mmf, let us know how you go.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (2 July 2010):
 q: would you mind linking to that research, Id just love to see it!
As for threesomes. Only do it when YOU and your partner wants it. Not because some friend tried it. You have to be sure that this is right for YOU. Threesomes aren't for everyone, and that does not mean you are sexually inexperienced. It is about knowing your limits and desires. Not all sexual fantasies have to be lived out.
Only do it if you are 100% sure about it. You have to trust your man 100% and he needs to trust you 100%. You will also need to talk about it in detail, set up rules for what is okay and what is not okay.
For example, do you want to have a threesome with someone you know, a stranger, when you are sober, after drinks, what actions are allowed (some will not allow the man to penetrate or cum in the other woman for example), and most importantly have some agreement on when to back out. If you at any point feel uncomfortable you should be able to back out, meaning the threesome stops. How will you and your partner handle such a situation? Will someone be upset? Will you have a laugh about it? Will he want to continue even if you feel uncomfortable?
Bringing another person into the bedroom is like bringing in an advanced new toy. It can be great, but there are a lot of buttons that shouldn't be pushed, and you need to map out the rules for do's and don'ts and agree on them.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (2 July 2010):
 Threesomes have been known to damage a relationship even when the people entered into them with absolutely no qualms or doubts. Since you have some I have to say don't go there sister.
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reader, MizzGuyana  +, writes (2 July 2010):
 If you and your partner are open to trying new things then I don't think having a threesome will do any harm to your relationship. The only issue is you. If you are not sure you'll be happy seeing another woman pleausing your man, I suggest that you wait until you are 100% sure you are ok with it. I don't think you should just let him watch, you'll get him turned on for no reason. In conclusion I think you should talk to him about it first before you make the next step.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2010): If you have even the remotest doubt, forget the threesome.
The doubt will grow and grow and grow, until the threesome comes and it sprouts its head and wrecks whatever respect your relationship has.
Threesomes are a death knell for any relationship. Once you are in a committed relationship, you are there to sexually please each other and each other alone.
If want a threesome, then you should be single and having those adventures with other single people.
Besides, if you are allowed to get down and dirty with a third party, it is only fair if he is as well. Rules are rules.
Flynn 24
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reader, sweetsiepie +, writes (2 July 2010):
 hey hunny if ur confident in your relationship go for it live a little be safe and have fun if he loves you he wont really care about this other girl so much but it will turn him on big time seen you with another women and just take it slowly step by step and say from the start if you or he want it to stop then stop but you might find that your worrying over nothing and you both might really enjoy it try it chick x
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