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writes:Theres this guy who I really really like and I've fallen for him big time! He's quite shy and never really had a proper girlfriend. I really want something to happen with him, we get on really well. We've been texting non-stop for the past month or so and I saw him over the weekend and we just talked and talked. I got butterflies everytime he touched my arm, or something like that. How can I tell him that I like him? What if he doesn't feel the same way? I've never felt like this before...and I don't want it to go wrong. I would do anything for this guy and I really want something to happen between us, because if it did I would be the happiest person alive...
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionJust to let you all know what happened, a mutual friend told him that I liked him and it was all fine for a while but when I last saw him, it was clear that he wasn't interested, so thats that one out of the window...
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reader, Collaroy  + ♥, writes (30 November 2007):
 Hi there,
It's called sexual chemistry. It's great isn't it?
Let me tell you something that is 100% certain. If he didnt fancy you he wouldn't be talking with you like this and spending all this time.
What it is , because he's a shy guy he is probably terrified of rejection if he asks you out.
So why don't you take the bull by the horns and ask him out to a movie or something. ( a good idea is a scary movie, you can hold on to him during the really icky parts).
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2007): Well, we all seem to go through this in some point of our lives. I think you should just come out and tell him. YOu never really know what might be his reaction or how it might turn out but thats the beauty of it. If you just sit around and wait for some miracle to happen, something or someone just might come around and it may be too late. You never know, what if he is wondering the same thing as you? You can start off by asking him if he is looking for a special someone then you can lead onto by asking him " what does our friendship mean to you?", " What do you think of me as a person?" and eventually that would lead onto a conversation about that. When he answers you, give him your opinion on the same question. This is all on you. MY only advice is to not be afraid to come out and tell the person that you seem to love how you feel because one day, you'll just end up regreting it and be another person in this world wondering " What if".
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reader, GreenTea  +, writes (30 November 2007):
You could kiss him...
Or tell him you like him...
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2007): I am in the same position. We text quite a bit and whenever we hang out I can't help but continually think about how perfect we would be. I think I am just going to wait it out a little bit and see if anything progresses. In about a month, if nothing happens but we get closer I am going to tell him I like him. It's the type of thing where you want them to like you back and not get freaked out and never talk to you again, because you want them if your life no matter what.
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