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female
age
26-29,
*eile
writes:My good friend, C, introduced me to a guy friend of hers, M.Apparently M started liking me. He would ask me out almost every week to hang out. I just go with the flow and went with him.Unknowingly, it seems that C likes M. I had that feeling. I would always asked her whether she likes him. She would always say that "I like him as a brother."So, I just take her word for it. M just continued asking me out every week. C does not know that I went out with him, others then the time I first met him with C. One day, M decided to post something on facebook and tagged me in it.C realised that I went out with him. She commented:C: Why didn't ask me out together? :xMe: Cause you always seem to be unavailable on that day. .C: Next time, ask me. You'll never know whether I would be free. :|The following day, M asked me out again. So I went with the flow.M posted something on facebook, saying he was with me on that day and a few friends. C then texted me a message:"There's something you know and do, you continue hurting me. Do you know that I am already hurt enough? How am I able to tell you?"What can I do about this unwanted love triangle? I don't want to ruin my friendship with her.I'm not sure whether I like that guy either.. I just go with the flow.What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 February 2012): It is not worth losing your friend over this guy. Tell her you didn't mean to upset her and stop seeing the guy. That's what I would do. You are only young so even if you do like him, chance are you won't be together for ever so you have more to lose by choosing him.
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