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writes:So me and this guy have been talking. We both find each other attractive. Here's the one thing that's bugging me...he has told everyone I know he's single. But we found pictures of him from a few months back with a girl and an engagement ring. His Facebook still has pictures of her on there but they are not friends on Facebook. I'm pretty sure he is living with her. Recently I found out they had went on vacation together. Why is he talking.me then and telling my friends he thinks I'm cute? I just feel its a situation to back out of. Plus, this girl I don't know if they are together or what. Is none of my business to ask, but now he's playing games because he knows I like him. Help..
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2012): Let me give u some advice that I learned over the years. A mature person knows that he/she can't control who he/she falls on love with but he/she is in complete control of his/her actions. I know he seems all dreamy now, trust me when I tell YOU They way he is treating his current gf or fiance is EXACTLY how is going TO treat YOU! I've seen it and experienced it. That he won't do it TO me crap never works. Trust me he is not worthy of YOU. YOU deserve better. There are MILLIONS of fish IN the sea. BE patient BECAUSE YOU ARE worth that special guy. Sometimes YOU have TO kiss many a frogs BEFORE YOUR find that prince. This guy is definitely a FROG! BE strong tell him TO p^^^ ^^!
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reader, chaijam  +, writes (1 September 2012):
It is possible that him and his fiance have recently broken up. Often ex-s still have photos of each other on their facebooks, I believe that's normal for long term relationships.
None of us can tell you the truth or what's really going on with him, the only person who can tell you the truth is him. So ask him!
If you don't trust him then maybe it's best to move on. Be sure or it'll come back to bite you.
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (1 September 2012):
 I assume you saw pictures where it was clear they are in a relationship, like kissing or far too close to be a sister or a friend who happens to be engaged. If that is the case then he is just a player. And it is definitely a situation to back out of. It could be possible there is nothing to this girl but it seems a bit too convienent to hear he is living with her, going on vacations with her, and has pictures of her on his page with an engagment ring. Why guys do this I don't know. At my work I had a married man come in with a list from his wife for items they needed, he told me all about his wife, 18 years together etc. Then a girl comes in he kind of knew and he starts talking low, flirting and saying they need to hang out but not to tell his wife! I'll never understand why some people are like this. But in any case stay out of it.
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