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writes:Long story short last year me and my ultimate crush were on the borderline of a relationship and I could tell he felt the same. We're both sort of shy I guess and never admitted but always spent time together and people thought we were in a relationship. Anyway out of the blue we stopped talking all together with no explanation or goodbye. We haven't spoken in person in over a year but have online a few times. I miss him and a few months ago he admitted to liking me and I admitted. I asked him why we stopped talking and he said we "drifted apart" but I think there's more to it. He's probably gotten over me now but I mentally can't get over him. I want him inmy life even just as a friend. He's going through alot and I want to be there for him. Is it worth trying again to just be friends with him again or should I leave him be? I hate the way things ended between us and I atleast deserve a proper explanation right?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2016): If mentally you can't let go and you guys haven't been talking lately i wouldnt initiate a friendship, obviously he cut you off for a reason. After someone walks out of your life you should'nt just let them back in whenever they please in my opinion it isnt worth it
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (16 March 2016):
 I can understand that you don't want to let go, but sweetie I really don't think he is that in to you, if he was he would not have allowed you both to drift apart. If he is going through a hard time at the moment, then tell him you are there for him even if it is just as a friend to help him any time he needs you, but something tells me you want this more than he does.
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reader, Kate1967  +, writes (16 March 2016):
Move on. He's not that into you. You deserve someone who will make you happy and smile that you don't have to chase. Be patient. The right one will come along some day. The most important thing is to like yourself and do your own thing to be happy. Love will eventually find you.
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reader, dougbcoll  +, writes (16 March 2016):
you cant force yourself on him, he will feel smothered. you can show him you care, and are there for him with words of love, acts of kindness.
you can get deeper to his heart by penning a card. writing your thoughts from your heart to him. with words written you can say more with depth than speaking.
the best you can do is let him know you are still there.
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