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anonymous
writes:I am 25 yo fmale and feel as if i have som crazy chemistry with another female.The first time we met she stood facing me and we had this eye contact that was so intense, as if buildings in the background had blown up... We never spoke and the next time ii saw her was 9months later on a night out eith mutual friends. That tension was still there, Constant eye contac hroughhout the night (even when i was speaking to others) and i also was so overwhelmed by the situation that i ended up kissing her.. (1 second peck). She continued the eye contact, being close around me and even walking me out to my bike...we stood and said hardly anything but sort of stared at each other and i left...was too intense. I saw her again about 3/ 4 months later. Still the same eye contact, also noticed/felt that she always placed herself in a position where she would be facing me or had vision of me. I felt as if she was very aware of where i was... I dont see her often, but when i do its always the same intensity, eye contact, we never/hardly conversate. I neve rknow what to say to be honest, and i think its the same for her. I find myself avoiding being too close to her or avoid looking her way, i have a feeling shes become aware of it. But this is obviously what i think, and im hoping im not imagining it...One thing i do know is that my sister comfromted me about it... She said she noticed that this girl seems 'nervous' around me and she felt some tension between us... One thing though, that makes me feel guilty is that she has a gf.. And seems happy with her and im happy for her. I wouldnt want to get in between that at all. Its just out of curiosity,So what id really like to know is, ; is this mutual or am i completely misinterpreting things?
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (18 July 2017):
 She has a GF so I'd back off. TOTALLY off.
While she MIGHT be (no doubt) attracted to you, it's LUST. She saw you and felt lust. Doesn't mean there is a DEEPER meaning or feelings that PURE lust.
She, however, HAS a GF someone she, without a doubt, have connected with on many levels NOT JUST LUST.
So I'd back off. It's the right thing to do.
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reader, Allumeuse +, writes (18 July 2017):
I think you probably just try and talk to her instead of trying to read her mind. You'll soon discover whether it is mutual.
And you've gone over a year without discovering whether she is smart or funny. I'm not a lesbian but I'm pretty sure there aren't that many around so you props by need to work faster on this
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2017): What's the number one reason why gay-relationships don't last?
You get one guess.
The answer is "cheating." Sexual-tension happens all the time, but commitment is made as a heart-felt promise to someone that you will save that sexual-tension for the one and only. Not ever Tom, Dick, and Harriet who gives us a tweak in our underpants.
You have nothing to feel guilty about, unless you act on your impulses. So what? People stare sometimes because they notice you staring at them. It's no coincidence you keep running into this girl. Come on, seriously?!! How gullible do you think we are here?
What pisses a lesbian off more than anything else on this planet?
Another lesbian staring at her girlfriend.
She has a girlfriend, they seem happy, and that's all you need to see.
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