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There were no clues at all that my guy was married and a cheater!

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Question - (14 April 2005) 3 Answers - (Newest, 15 April 2005)
A , anonymous writes:

I have just found out the guy I`ve been going out with for 2 months is married with a baby. His wife found texts I had sent on his mobile. I had no idea he was married and even now can see no clues from his past behaviour. Our relationship was serious with plans made for the future and him constantly telling me he loved me. I loved him too.

I want answers and an apology from him but secretly deep down I think I want him back.H is wife tells me they are trying to make a go of it but there are some things she has told me that dont add up. He has not been in contact with me; should I make contact with him?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2005):

Leave him alone. Obviously he has made his choice quite clear. Actions speak louder than words. He is obviously not such a great guy if he could be doing this to the mother of his child and lying to you. He was living a double life, having his cake and eating it too.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2005):

The short answer no. You would be a fool.

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A reader, sxymamicuta +, writes (15 April 2005):

I dont think you should. I mean he lied to his wife in the first place and to you too, right? You don't deserve that. Don't even bother in calling him. Thank god you found out who he really is. What if you guys got more serious? It would be harder than to break it off than it is now.

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