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writes:what to do?alrite i liek love this guy named "jake" (fake). n he loves me but he is just recently become single. i toldhim i would date him again this past monday (3days ago). n i kno he still loves me. ok...hold on hold on. lemme start about us. well me n him dated at teh beginning of our freshman year of HS and we dated well into January. thn he broke up with me. which totaly shattered my heart, but like everyone i put it bak together.it took a while but now i am bak to loving him again, n like i said i told him i'de date him n give it another try. but he hasn't made any attempt at gettin me bak so do i ask out this other guy i like or this girl i like or do i wait for him???there is like 2 girls i relle relle like n 1 guy. so what am i to do??? help please?
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reader, maverick  +, writes (10 February 2008):
 At this moment, you could explore your options.Dating is where you would typically go out and spend time with other people intimately, to get to know them and see if you would be good for a longer term relationship with deeper commitments.A long term relationship, is what you would expect to find after a period of dating. Dating and long-term relationships are the same thing, but this can vary depending on your beleifs of it.Given all that has happened, you should look at the oppourtunities around you. Spend time with the other people and see how you get on. Yes that's quite a few people but you can learn and choose a better partner that way - it will help you avoid commitimg to someone that might not be right for you.As I've learned the hard way you can't wait to "be" in love. If you wait then he could turn round and say no, and the others could be gone as well. You make your own oppourtunities.Good luck.
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