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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:When I met my husband it was through Facebook. I connected with him through Facebook at the time I was undergoing chemo treatment. When I met him I had two more chemo treatments to go. We spoke over the phone and that started to turn in to friendship. We met each other and started to go out with each other. He was the first man I have ever kissed and took my vaginity. I have never been with anyone after him. We got married two years after. We went to a casino where it became a thing for us to go all the time. We started to gamble. The gambling sometimes I think is a way for us to release because we have different things in common. He in to reef keeping spends at lot of time in it. And then we gamble put a strain in relationship. He has been working on and off. Now he hasn't worked for 8 months a and the gambling got out of hand that I put a stop to it and told him that we have to separate in order to find ourselves. If we separate the gambling will stop. The car is gone so we can cut the gambling and there won't be any payments financially. Also, because of the strain there is a guy at work who I came to like but did not let it go further because I am married. I am so conflicted with my feelings for this guy. My husband always told me he doesn't want children which is Also another thing that has strained the relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2015): what is the problem...the gambling, the unemployment or your wanting out of the relationship?
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