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writes: Dear Cupid,So me and this guy were together for a bit and everything was going good. I mean we were the perfect looking couple...we were hot together. Then the whole town got angry at him for being with me(the new girl) and left me for this other girl. How do I get him back? Do I seek revenge or something? He still likes me I know he does cause he cant keep away from me. So how can I get him back?
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reader, nogames +, writes (12 January 2006):
Well, either he's an idiot or you're some kind of a demon or a witch that the townspeople are scared of. Honestly, this is one of the silliest things I've ever heard. He dumped you because the townies got angry with him for dating the "new girl"?!?! Why does he care so much what the townies think? Does he even care about you? Why would he do that to you?! What an idiot! He's not worth it. Do you agree? If yes then tell him the next time he contacts you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2006): I think he sounds a little bit too easilly swayed if he takes his love advice from some gossipy townsfolk.
If he gets scared by what people thinks and rushes out to date someone some nobodies think is more "suitable" what do you want him for anyway?
Don't you deserve someone who is going to stick up for you and tell everyone else to mind their own business, not listen to their prejudice, half baked gossip? Don't you want a man who will tell people that he doesn't care what they think - he loves you and the relationship is private? Not run away and date someone who old bob in the post office thinks is nice.
Next time he can't keep away from you, I would tell him that its either all or nothing. Either he wants to be with you or this other girl and he can't have it both ways. He must decide and if he wants to regain his popularity with the townspeople and date this new girl, he must leave you alone so you can get on with your life.
He is obviously stupid if he listens to what some silly old hick townspeople think about something so trivial as dating the new girl in town. He will have a miserable life if he just does whatever some nobodies think and that will be your revenge.
Find someone who has a brain and a heart, no just looks. And someone who will stand up for you, not run away.
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