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The sex is bad and he mistreats me. Walk away?

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Question - (16 August 2015) 5 Answers - (Newest, 18 August 2015)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

So, I have been seeing this guy he is really great we had our Rockey moments, the only thing is he has a really small penis It is about 2-3 inches. Him and I had sex once but it was really bad he was embarrassed, that his penis kept slipping out of my vagina. I could not feel a thing, he had stated the only time his penis would not fit inside a girl was when she was a virgin. I lied and told him that it was fine and that he shouldn't worry. I cant see my self with someone like that, because there have been a few times when has disrespected me, he has apologized. I could see myself with him for a long time if he treated me better.

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A male reader, TrancedRhythmEar Saudi Arabia +, writes (18 August 2015):

TrancedRhythmEar agony auntHes the abusive type. leave him and his little soldier.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (16 August 2015):

Honeypie agony auntA guy NEEDS to have skills in bed other than inserting his penis. If he can't please you and he acts disrespectful, it's not going to get better.

The sex CAN improve (no matter the size) but it takes effort of both sides and the willingness to TALK about it, to not lie about how little you get out of it.)

I will say this, if you can't TALK to the person you are having sex with about improving it... you are going to end up with mediocre sex and it will be your own fault.

As to the disrespect? It he is an ass to you and then later apologizes, it will become a habit. He will continue to do so and you will continue to resent him.

It sounds like you are already over this guy and the relationship, so why stay?

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A male reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (16 August 2015):

olderthandirt agony auntYep! you should have already walked away some time ago.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2015):

Tell him that you need to be treated better. Technically speaking, a penis wouldn't be necessary for you to have a good time, so you could give him hand and oral for him to orgasm and he could do the same to you, no penis penetration needed.

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A female reader, Hellofriends2014 United States +, writes (16 August 2015):

Then leave. How stupid can you be? If he is disrespecting you now, that means he's not that into you or doesn't know how to treat women correctly. If he doesn't know and you want to "teach" him then that's on you, but I believe you are being too nice and stupid to be tolerating any kind of abuse. A loving relationship isn't supposed to be like that. However, it is YOUR choice darling. If you want to stay with him, then that's on you. Tell him the things that are bothering you. If he says sorry and doesn't repeat it, then that means that he means it. If he keeps doing it, he might be an abusive type. Again, your choice.

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