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writes: hi i really need some advice i am having huge problems me and my partner have been together for 5 years and its not been a easy 5 years we have split up a few time but i really thought this was the last time and he had changed his ways he had medical advice and everything but then the other day we had a argument now this wasnt a bad argument we have had worse and we have sorted it out but he just walked out on me and and he has not come back i cant get hold of hi or anything i really love him and dont no what to do with outhim i am crying myself to sleep the only thing keeping me going is my son which he is the dad to and my son keeps asking for his daddy which is so hard as i dont even no what to say to him about it i just dont no what to do i love him so much if you can help that would be great thanx xx
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (27 September 2006):
 maybe talking to freinds as well as his mom or his sister or part of his family to find out where he is so you can take his son to see him. and if your son does ask where daddy is again you should say daddy will be back soon! but you really have to ask your self as much as your going to defend him because you love him is this a dad and a man? no proper dad would leave his son for no longer than a day with out mssing him and wanting to see him, no man would leave his woman the mother of his child for the same reason! and also if this is to be the end of you 2 IF then make sure he see's his son or you get child mantenance off him for your son! a little tip its always hard at first of course and you feel so much pain you want to give up but look at your son and tell your self you will be strong for your little boy as long as you have him nothing can hurt you! and trust me time is healer!
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reader, Toria +, writes (27 September 2006):
 Is there any of his family members you can contact even to sort something out so he can come see his son as whatever is going on with you and him your son isn't to blame and shouldn't suffer because of it.
Maybe if he comes and spends sometime with his son he might see what he is missing out on and realise he has made a mistake, you've been together a long time maybe he just needs space and time to himself.
Other than that there really isn't alot you can do until he is prepared to talk to you.
Good luck :o)
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