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female
age
30-35,
*aigeykins
writes:i recently told my best friend that im in love with him. he confessed to me that hes gay about 2 months before i told him. i dont have any problem with gay people but it frustrates me when he tells me stories about his experiences. i feel like hes afraid to tell me certain things that i want him to tell me but when he finally does i push him away bc its not what to hear. theres nothing i want to hear more in this world than for him to say he loves me and means it in the way i need. itd mean everything to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2010): If he's gay he is is never going to have sexual or romantic feelings for you,and he wont tell you he is in love with you, sorry to be harsh but he wont, stop wishing, been there! no matter how much you want him too. I have been where you are,I know how you feel.You need to accept that he is gay, yes you like him and you want him, but he is gay. He sounds like a good friend, be glad of that, good friends are very hard to find, he is gay and may be coming to terms with telling people and might be a bit scared of what ppl think about that. He is confiding in you and needs you support, not you wishing he was straight. Trust me you will get over him in time. Lots of women have fallen for gay guys and survived, you will too, it may hurt and will take time but u will be ok. Remember he is gay, you have to respect that and just be his friend nothing more. If you dont like him telling you his sex stories than tell him to stop it, because it makes you u feel uncomfortable, im sure he will stop if he cares for you.take care
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reader, kayla20  +, writes (22 March 2010):
 you need to understand that his gay and its not going to change yourl never be able to change his feelings for you no matter how you try.his never going to see you in that light always as a friend, you will eventually get over him and move on but i think you need to let go of hope and not push him away when he tells you things obviously in confidence just try and be there for him as a friend
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (22 March 2010):
 You need to tell him that and not hint to him. He can't read your mind or he is not the romantic type.
Some men have difficulties expressing their emotions and feelings.
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