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The man I am dating refuses to introduce me to his family

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Question - (30 October 2015) 2 Answers - (Newest, 31 October 2015)
A female age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Thanks for ur replies so far concerning my previous question.i am a 25yrs and the guy is 36yrs we've been dating over a year now becos when he ask my hand in marriage as at last year i refused becos i dont know much about him before i excepted him for us to begin our relationship,aftersome time i realised he has a 9yrs old child out of wedlock to avoid anything that will lead to broken relationship,he relate well with my friends,family and neighbour and they all knew him but he has refused to and i fei introduce me to his family members but still each time i asked him why his reply was "after all u introduce me as a friend to ur family.dats one of d question i asked him if he truly really loves me, but he refuse to repy im confuse becos i thought is pretending advice pls

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A female reader, supermum United Kingdom +, writes (31 October 2015):

supermum agony auntThis is certainly very strange. Have you met his friends yet if not his family? If not, I would seriously reconsider this relationship as he may not be as single as you thought. How can you get married without knowing his family and friends?

And that hesitation when you asked if he truly loved you is worrying too.

If I were you hun, and I know it hurts, I would tell him that you deserve better and move on. You are still young and you will find your prince. But there is no point staying on in a relationship with someone who isn't as committed to you as you are to them. The power in a relationship lies with the person who cares least. xxxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2015):

Trust your gut. After a year if this guy was serious you would have met someone in his family.

This doesn't sound promising, do you know for certain he is not still with the mother of his child? The way he is acting is strange and if you're not happy you shouldn't settle for this, and should break up with him.

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