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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have just recently seperated from my husband and at this time not interested in persuing a relationship with another man, ever again. I decided that after all that I've been through in my past relationships and especially my marraige that I would rather be alone and concentrate solely on my children and my job. I do however have the desire to be intimate with another woman. I do not want a relationship, I just want to seek the thrill of the situation, (of course I would need to be comfortable with the other woman), but the idea excites me tremendously. So if I had the opportunity to do so while I'm still married, even though I'm seperated, would this be considered cheating? And how would I even go about persuing intimacy with another woman? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2007): I think a seperation grants you license to see other people, especially if you're determined to not have a relationship with a man ever again. A crazy fling is fine, but I hope you don't think your longterm problems with relationships can be solved just by crossing over to women. If you start dating again, you'll probably find women can have just as many problems as men.
But you're really looking for the crazy fling, aren't you?
The internet has basically solved this problem. Depending on where you live, your town may have an active craigslist.com with a section devoted to just this purpose. If not that, there's probably a personals site of some kind you can use. "women seeking women" is the phrase that pays. Certain stuck-up or prim websites have a section for "intimate encounters", but the better ones will advertise "sex" or "NSA (no strings attached) sex". Certain rules of safety should be observed, however, if you plan on meeting other women this way.
1. Don't upload any photo to the internet you wouldn't mind the entire world seeing (i.e. crop out your face).
2. Meet your online acquaintances in a public place for the first time. If you detect anything creepy, don't invite them home or go anywhere else with them.
3. Tell someone where you're going and when you'll be back - you needn't mention what exactly it is you're going out for.
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