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The grass wasn't greener on the other side.....

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Question - (31 January 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 31 January 2011)
A male Canada age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I want to work things out with my flame but I don't know how to cope with possible rejection. How should I go about. Keep in mind I crapped on her. Bailed out on her for another woman which flopped because my heart wasn't into her. It's been 2 years. Tks lots

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2011):

If you still have feelings for her - just casually suggest getting together for a catch up. Nothing more than that. Then you can see if there is anything there worth pursuing. But, you hurt her and if you have the slightest feeling that you might do it again, just do not get back in contact. It is not fair to play with someone's emotions. There must have been a reason why you strayed in the first place. Look at it honestly, before you go turning someone's life upside down.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2011):

I personally think you hurt her enough the first time. Let her live her life free of all the painful memories of you. If you care for her at all thats what you'll do. You made your bed...

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