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JakeB2611
writes:There is this girl I really like but She is going out with someone else at the moment. They recently had quite a big argument and now I'm not sure what I should do beacause she seems to be coming to me for help but I don't know what to say to her !!! Plus I want to ask her out but I'm not sure if this would just make her angry or then our friendship will be over !!!!! PLEASE HELP Reply to this Question |
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reader, kb123 +, writes (18 April 2008):
i agree with the anonymous writer this happend with my m8 he was friends with this girl and helped her through braking with her boyfriend and now thay are boyfriend and gilfriend so it could go that way thay are right make her feel good about her self be a friend to her treat her good and mabey (99%) sure she will ask you out when she dumps her boyfriend but dont just tell her to dump him just so you can go out with her coz she will not ask you out and not trust you
good luck
let me know how it goes
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2008): NO!! thats a very bad idea to ask her out now. this is the time to prove to her that you would be a perfect guy for her. make her feel good as she has just had a argument with her man. give her flowers and ice cream to cheer her up. listen to her moan about her guy, and then tell her that how hes not worth it and sh could do much better (hint) tell her that there are alot of guys out there that will treat her better etc.
then when shes over him, ask her out
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2008): Well honey you've got to take this slowly with her. At the moment, she needs a shoulder to cry on, and not yet another male related problem. You've got to carry on acting normal around her and let her come to you. By the sounds of it, these guys are pretty close to breaking up. So before you act, wait til they are definitely broken up! See how she takes this, is she still upset? If so, keep being a shoulder to cry on. Otherwise, maybe wait a few weeks and then ask her out. Once a girl has just got out of a relationship, she's not likely to want to jump straight into another one. So if you can, try and make her keep developing more trust in you and keep her close (emmotionally). She obviously values you a lot, and it could wreck things if she thinks you're only being nice so you can ask her out! So wait a few weeks, and then if she's not feeling so upset and they're not together, then consider asking her out. But if they're still together, just keep being a good friend and hold back!
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reader, rajnesh +, writes (17 April 2008):
 well you should wait for them to break up and then talk to her and be pen about everything. just say that you dont want it to break your friendship but you have feelings for her. She obviously trusts you because thats why she came for advice to you.
you never know she probably likes you too but is so caught up wioth this other dude that she dont realize thats whi she actually likes. If you tell her she will be aware and will atleast give it athought. dont act like youre happy that they are arguing and dont tell her anthing until they braek up because you dont want her to be more depressed however be there for her, hugg her make her feel important around you and she may develop feelings for you and then when you tell her it will be easier for you.
good luck hope it all goes well
xxxxxx
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reader, daniellexxxx +, writes (17 April 2008):
 Let her end it with her bf first thats if she does. Because if dont leave it she may be on the rebound and she may or will regret anything you to do. Ask her if shes going to stay with her bf just tell her you like her but dont ask her out until after she ends it with her bf.
Good luck.
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