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The girl I dated told me I was jealous and untrustworthy, but she texted a friend she liked me loads...

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Question - (1 September 2005) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 September 2005)
A male , anonymous writes:

I was seeing a girl for about two months. We never slept together for various reasons, but we were planing to and I could tell she liked me a lot.

I went on holiday with my mates for two weeks and when I came back, she was distant and didn't contact me. After chasing her for a couple of weeks we spoke and she said she didn't want to be with me cause I was jealous and she couldn't trust me.

I recently found out she was seeing someone from her work and I saw her out with him. She also texted a mutual friend and said although she liked me loads she couldn't trust me.

Basically my question is should I pursue it, cause I do really like her. By the way, I'm 23 and she is 18.

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A female reader, Delila +, writes (3 September 2005):

It sounds like you got up to no good while you were away with your mates and she got wind of it!!! If thats true well then she has her mind made up that she doesn't want to be with someone she can't trust. This girl knows her own mind. I bet she's a great girl, she is probably worth the chase, if you can get her. She is probably strong minded and won't put up with any crap so if you do get another chance don't blow it. Have you tried flowers and chocolates?

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A reader, pops +, writes (1 September 2005):

NO!, don't waste your time. She doesn't want to see you, and that is why she is still saying things about you that are probably not true. Why would you want to be around a woman who says she can't trust you, when she has no reason to make that claim? Find someone that will appreciate you, and forget this girl.

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