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36-40,
*unalove
writes:I went out with a guy 4 years younger than me..... when I met him he was wonderful Even made me feel younger than him cuz of the way he carryed him self.... things started going bad after I said yes to being his girl friend.... he lost his job and got kicked out of his house... I helped him out for way to long and he keeped me on check....lost my friends, lost my fam.and because he would tell co-workers to stay away from me and pluse he would call my jobs and cell every five min. I lost 3 jobs.... one day something just clicked in my brain and I said "Im Done" I left him two months ago and I changed my cell number because I would wake up and have 96 missed calls 124 unread txt messages and in the day it was 3 time that on miss calls and txt messages... he has told me that if he sees me "with another guy who ever he may be He is dead" now every time I go out Im looking around to see If he is there... Even when Im out side my house Im looking around... I cant live this way.... I just want peace. What can I do??? I tryed going to the police but they cant do much they say... :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2010): Keep a log, and continue to go to the police, especially if it gets any worse. No disrespect with the analogy, but people like that are like stray cats. You keep giving them milk, and they will keep coming to their back door. I've dealt with the crazy obsessive stalker ex myself. You have to just give NO response whatsoever. If they get any type of response from you, they will see it as meaning they still have a chance. You leave that window open just a crack, and they come barging through it. People get bored and people move on. If you ignore him, he will eventually move on to someone who DOES give him attention. If he EVER threatens you, save the texts, save the voicemail, and go directly to the cops. If he ever shows up at your door, call the police.
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