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writes:Several years I wrote for help on this page about stupidly losing my virginity to a one night stand and how I was not sure how emotionally to deal with that fact in the aftermath of being so, for want of a better word, dumb. I wanted to say to anyone out there that has made similar choices or considering it, that you do learn to live with it and it gets easier. I didn't suddenly become "Ms Slut" sleeping with anyone and everyone either, it took time for me to deal with what happened and it took even more time to lose my other firsts to someone I actually trusted. I needed time but not years of therapy lol. That you learn that being messed up in one moment is okay, it does not define you or ruin you. I think I accepted my virginity once I lost it, which is a shame but hindsight is a funny thing. Thank you cupids for being there for me in my time of need.
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reader, Dionee'  +, writes (6 October 2017):
 It's great that you're doing so well. This thank you note will serve as inspiration for many other people out there.
Thank you :)
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (5 October 2017):
 It is nice to hear some feedback and well done for accepting the past :-)
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