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writes:Help me Please Ive taken a total of 4 hpts two which were negative and two that were positive 1 urine test at the doc which was also negative I had sex in March a few weeks after I had sex I began to bleed after the bleeding stopped i took a test and that was negative I waited until the 14th of april to test again it was also neg I took a test first thing the next morning and it was positive I didnt bleed the whole month of april and went to the doc took a test there it was neg i just took a test may 1st which was yesterday got another positive i have an appointnment for Monday but not too long ago I started bleeding whats going on what should I do? I called the doc and they said everything should be fine But Im freakn out. Help me please. Reply to this Question
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reader, MissWendlemoot  +, writes (3 May 2008):
 If you were pregnant, the test would consistently be positive so it is very unlikely you are.
Have you been tested for STDs? That would be a good thing to do and also when you go for your visit, ask your doctor for a reliable method of birth control. Many will also give out free condoms.
Best wishes.
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reader, WastedLife +, writes (3 May 2008):
If you can, relax and trust nature as best you can. It's possible that you were never pregnant and the tests you are using are picking up residual HCG from a fertilization without implantation. The early tests are very sensitive, and you have much more concentrated urine in the morning.
It's possible to get a fertilization and implantation that doesn't "take" long term. The body actually rejects about half the early pregnancies in the first month or two. After a couple of months, a person may have a "miscarriage", properly called a spontaneous abortion, but more often, women just get a heavy period after possible off and on spotting.
It's only properly called a miscarriage after three months of pregnancy, and the first three months are always the most uncertain.
This is nature's way of being sure of a pregnancy before letting it go full term. It's nature's quality control system. This process has gone on forever, but we don't often hear about it and many times women don't even realize it.
The best thing would be to relax, live a healthy lifestyle and trust in the process. If things are not clear after a couple of more weeks, you might get a sonogram to clarify what's happening. By then you would likely have a clear result - positive or negative on the test. If you have serious bleeding, like a period, then it is likely that you are not pregnant after that, but trust that your body knows what it is doing.
I'm sorry to be so blunt, but I'd rather be honest with you. I truly hope things work out well. Good luck.
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reader, PUDDINPOP +, writes (2 May 2008):
PUDDINPOP is verified as being by the original poster of the question Is it possible to be pregnant miss a period one month and then start bleeding real early the next month Im confused Im not cramping or clotting just bleeding if I calculated right Id be 6weeks and 4days today help I dont know if its normal should I be freaking out or just relax and see any advice or stories of this happening and the baby being fine would really calm my nerves I dont want to miscarry.
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