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Teens and the importance of getting a career over sex

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Article - (14 August 2009) 7 Comments - (Newest, 23 August 2009)
A male India age 18-21, abhi_47 writes:

hey everyone!

this is my first article and topic is immaturity by teens in preferring sex over career.

im watching that teens are more conscious about their sex lives, size of their breasts or penis,...

they are more curious to know what sound it makes during sex than anything.

i somewhere read that a boy taped her sister changing dress so he can upload it on net.

dont todays teens have something better to do and think. this is the time when they should be striving their best to reach at some goal.

what after if at 13 a teen has a bf/gf. and in months started with sex. and by 15 either girl is pregnant or they are looking for someone who is more exciting.

all this looks great fun. but think of. . . u r 16 or 17 with a baby.

but you cant blame teens for this. i think parents has to be blamed for all who are either working or whenever has time got busy on internet.

water has the tendency to flow down. after attaining puberty teens wants to experiment. but parents need to counsel them for what their goal should be.

there is not much problem in this. i m in late teens. i m 19+ very interisting flirty romantic. i passed my teen age as virgin. now in 2nd year of engnering. my goal is set now. now i m looking for someone speacial :-) FINGERS CROSSED XXXXXXXXXXXX

so request to all teens dont rush for sex so early, their r other important things u should concentrate on.

and parents do take care of kids after 12.

This was my view. and i would like to hear from u.

thanx for reading my first article.

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A male reader, abhi_47 India +, writes (23 August 2009):

abhi_47 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

abhi_47 agony auntHey all... aphex you too hold extreme views against TEEN SEX its fantastic. v r the change and we will be the change that we want to see in sosciety...

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A female reader, aphexinfinite United Kingdom +, writes (22 August 2009):

aphexinfinite agony aunttheir are alot of factors in why things happen. some dont find out how stupid they have been till they landed themselves in it.. the parents must be to blame to and extent why whas their child not watched closely enough that this is happening all the time their is no control and their is no power with parenting these days. a good old slap round the ear and i never did anything bad was afraid to and their is no fear now the children run amok. hell the other day a girl says im 13 pregnant and dont know who the father is! their are serious concerns in the world and no one seems to be tackling the problem. so it will just get worse. sex is something that had a limit on and children dont go by limits theirs nothing stopping them so i guess were all to blame on this because not one of us is changing anything¬ thats my little imput aphex

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A male reader, abhi_47 India +, writes (22 August 2009):

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abhi_47 agony auntExactly this is what i m trying to say... because of hormonal changes at puberty, no parental advice and lack of self control teen agers are risking everything.

teen sex is more in western countries and government there is also worried as clear from Obama's speech. He said that American students should pull up their socks to compete with Indians for jobs.

its clear...as Indian culture does nt allow this and so teens r more focussed towards right aim at right time.

m strictly stuck to my views and condemns TEEN SEX.

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A female reader, Starlights United Kingdom + , writes (22 August 2009):

Starlights agony auntAbhi

the hormones racing during teenage years is normal for everyone... most of us experience it during our teenage years.

I remeber when i was 12 i was thinking i wanted to marry Brad Pitt and Anil Kapoor (actors) and have their babies... and i was 12!

some of us choose to act upon it and experiment with the opposite sex and others choose to wait until they find the special partner/wife.

yes your right one's longterm career is more important to focus on and aim for then rushing into sex.

A person who rushes into sex without thinking risks catching a sexually transmitted disease which some can be fatal.

But sex is normal and healthy to think about!

this is my opinion :)

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A male reader, abhi_47 India +, writes (22 August 2009):

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abhi_47 agony auntThanx for reading and making a reply. yes TISHA u got me right :-)

gud luck guys.

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A female reader, Youngmummy United Kingdom +, writes (19 August 2009):

Youngmummy agony auntHey

I Was 13 when i lost my V and yes i was somthing that just happend and i was still with that boy when i was 14 and we had sex and the condom oviosly split because i am a mother to twins and i am 15, its the best thing that ever happend to me and i would not change it, but i understand there are teens trying to get pregnant out there its not a joke its hard

but my perants are not to blame at all because i came from a well educated backround with a nice up bringing the perants are not to blame one bit

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States + , writes (18 August 2009):

Tisha-1 agony auntThanks for writing this article, Abhi. It sounds like you have thought about what your priorities are in life and that you've made healthy choices for your future. I hope you recognize that many of the people who post here at DearCupid have concerns or problems, so it's not necessarily the best gauge of what society as a whole is like. It's a little microcosm of concentrated worries!

It sounds like you are a thoughtful and intelligent young man with so much to look forward to! Good luck with your schooling and I wish you the very best.

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