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Teen boyfriend troubles...

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Question - (14 February 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 15 February 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I know this guy, and i have been out with him like 3 times. He was my first boyfriend, and I've had a thing for him ever since. Then one day we met up for a pull, do not know why, and then a couple of weeks later he says this 'we are technically secretly seeing eachother' I was fine with it as i loove the boy alot. But then he asked my friend out..

I immediatly dumped him, even tho he denied he done it. I wanted to tell er so bad i was seeing him but i couldn't,the relationship was secret.

Then, he told me we where seeing eachother! And he admitted in the time that we where over he liked another girl! So im seeing him, in secret. We don't do anything together. He say's he loves me but I'm not to sure, he only seems to ask me for sex and a pull. He said he wanted to loose his virginity with me. Is he using me, or does he really love me? :( Help pleaaase xxxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2010):

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thankyou, use have helped out alot! I dumped him and Ive blocked him on the internet, so now he can't mess around with me anymore :D thanks x

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A female reader, lily13524 United States +, writes (14 February 2010):

lily13524 agony auntHe`s totally using you,i was in a similar sitution as you,well actually this guy was my best friend,and we started getting more feelings for eachother,and we started going out secretly,and he had other girls whiles we were going out and in the end he totally hurt me,so to make a long story short...just dump him,he ain`t worth it.And promise me that hunny dont give anyone your virginity,they have to work for it[never hurt you,there is trust and so forth]and the age you`re now,you not ready either,anyways good luck hope this help! xD

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2010):

This guy is using you. he has no respect for you and enjoys controlling you. Please dump him straight away, walk away and forget about him. he is not worth a second of your time!

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (14 February 2010):

He's using you. He asked this other girl out when going out with you, then came back to you when he wasn't getting anywhere else. Take it from a male that he's using you. Dump him.

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