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16-17,
beautifuldreamer
writes:sorry it's so long. must me nerves. I am a sophmore in high school. I am in the high school band. I love being in the band, and playing my instrument. The problem is that i have what i think is maybe a crush on my band teacher.Now,i'm not another one of those stupid teenage girls who think that i'm in love with him or he's in love with me or i have a chance with him or anything like that. He's 43, married and has two little girls. I love the fact that he has a family, i think that's great, i'm not jealous or anything. Yes, i do think about him but, not like sexually or in THAT way AT ALL!That's just wrong. I just admire him alot. He very smart, funny, fun, and a really nice guy. He's very open with my friends and piers but not with me. I'm a very quiet girl, i don't talk much, but i'm friendly, i have alot of friends in that class and i'm a good musicain and a good student all my other teachers like me alot. I feel like he hates me or something because he never talks to me or asks me questions. I wish he would because i really want to get to know him better and i want him to get to know me better.i just wish that he would talk treat me the way he treats everyone else. Is it possable that he knows i kind of like him? I never filrt with him or say or do anything weird, i don't like him THAT way. I feel frustrated and i wish i caould make things more comfertable between us because i really like him alot and band a lot! all my friends are in it too, i see him everday, my mom is good fiends with him, And he lives next door to my best friend. What should i do? I really want him to just notice me and like me just as a person. Thats all i want. How can i improve our teacher student relationship? Any sujestions wanted!!!Thank you!
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reader, Jamer70  +, writes (7 February 2008):
 Well its good to know you have thought about this and know that he cant feel the same way due to him and his family.
As for being treated with respect just ask hi questions in leason make him know that you want to put that extra mile in your band class so he knows you wanna suceed. If he knows that he will go for that extra mile for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2008): Hey,
I have a similar thing with on of my teachers. He's my favorite teacher and i really like him a lot but he ignores a bunch of people. It took me a while to realize he didn't hate me, i just wasn't a favorite. I figured i'd go and ask him a question about some work in the class and we ended up talking for a while. Now i know i am one of the favorites. i would suggest you do the same. Just be friendly and don't give him anything to dislike!
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reader, rcn + ♥, writes (7 February 2008):
 I'd just say to say HI to him when you see him. Why wait for him to ask you a question, ask him. You're feelings for him are OK, they're not abnormal. It's OK to appreciate the kind of person someone is, and admire their accomplishments. There is nothing wrong with it.
Take care.
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