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writes: I have a problem with my girlfriend. She simply is not attractive to me. Sure, she is cute and all, attractive to other men but I simply don't enjoy touching her. Sex can be good but infrequent and usually she starts things off and I want it to finish soon for both of us. Usually I pretend I am asleep. I love her very much and don't want to lose her, but at the moment I find myself making excuses not to be intimate. I have no explanation and this is making her feel very unnatractive. My vagueness and silence about what hinders me only adds to the problem but I can't find an easy problem that will have a solution!!!We have been going out for 2 years and all was rosey at the start. She kind of repels me in a way as if she was my sister or something....Suggestions please!C L Reply to this Question
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (15 February 2005):
 I think you are viewing your girl-friend like a sister and the chemistry just simply isn't there for you. Have you found other women attractive in the past? Have you had this type of problem before?If you have, then there could be a pattern developing but perhaps it is just with this one girl.Maybe you are bored and need to endeavour to put a little sizzle back into your relationship but it really seems to me that you aren't going to be happy in this situation. It isn't fair on your girl-friend to remain while you feel this way. Unless, of course, you can accept the lack of sexual chemistry and she can to, you may have to move on.
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