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writes:Hi, I'm new here and well I just need to talk to someone as I don't have anywhere else to go and have tried other things the thing is this is slightly embarrassing for me but I need some advice and opinions and figured it was best to do it in an anonymous environment. Okay well my problem is I am what you would call small in the genital department and I also suffer from getting excited too quickly, I have tried everything to solve this even stupidly spending vast ammounts of money from various online sites, this has effected me for some time and I have not met a girl yet that has been understanding which has stopped me from trying to date girls. I also suffer bad teasing because of this and because I'm not what you would consider your normal macho guy so to speak, I really would like to know what I can do about this and does this bother all girls or are there understanding girls out there? I'm beginning to feel I will never have a girlfriend. Gav
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reader, redhotchilli23 +, writes (12 February 2009):
redhotchilli23 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you for the link to the website
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reader, planepocket  +, writes (5 February 2009):
If you are willing to have surgery,it can be enlarged by phalloplasty.The length can be increased by cutting the suspensatory ligaments which hold part of the penis inside the body and wearing weghts or a traction device so that they do not grow back together for about 6 months.The girth can be increased by fat injection or dermal graft.
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reader, Ed1337 +, writes (5 February 2009):
 Check out askmen.com, might be some info on there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2009): Right, so you have a small penis. You have been on many sites that have just made it worse by promising you what they can’t deliver. It’s just like small boobs, you have to ACCEPT that this is your penis size. It’s not going to get any bigger no matter what potions and lotions you use. Now once you have accepted and love what you have, only then will you find your solution. It’s like a person who loses their eye sight, they learn to adapt and use other senses to get by. Accept and learn to use your hands, tongue, words and toys. It’s not about a big penis .It’s about closeness, love, honesty, communication, interest and confidents. Let go of the negative beliefs that are associated with a small penis. There is a book that will help you find all the right spots written by Kim Cattrall and Mark Levinson,its called Satisfaction:The Art of the Female Orgasm.
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reader, redhotchilli23 +, writes (5 February 2009):
redhotchilli23 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioncan I get more feedback thank you
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reader, redhotchilli23 +, writes (5 February 2009):
redhotchilli23 is verified as being by the original poster of the questiondoes anyone know of a website where i may be better to post this or get more feeback about my problem thanks
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reader, redhotchilli23 +, writes (25 January 2009):
redhotchilli23 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi thank you so much for your advice i am extremly gratefull it makes be feel better just to know some people understand
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2009): ah its soooo horrible to feel bad about your body and some people can be very cruel. im a 21 yr old girl with a fair amount of experience for my age and i actually prefer guys who are at most average. i find that larger can be uncomfortable and also guys who are big automatically assume they are good in bed and that they dont need to know what they are doing. in reality very very few women can get an orgasm from penetration. its nice, but you need to stimulate her clit if you want to give her a good time! my advice is to get good at giving oval sex... and if possible masturbate before going out with the girl so your not fully loaded and ready to blow *
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reader, redhotchilli23 +, writes (23 January 2009):
redhotchilli23 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni would like to thank you both in taking the time to get back to me it means and i really apperciate it you have both spoken alot of sense and i will keep in mind what you have said thank you
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reader, Ed1337 +, writes (22 January 2009):
I've heard of people using penis weights before, which is probably better than taking some drug that claims to give you an extra 10 inches, maybe you could look into this some more, if you haven't already tried it. Also some guys shave the penis and around the base to make it look a bit bigger.There are exercises that are suppose to help if you get excited too quickly, which isn't too gross either. When you have a pee, try and stop it in mid flow and hold it in for a short time. I've never done this myself so I can't say whether or not it helps.I'm sure there are plenty of females out there who won't mind too much about the size of your manhood, just make up for it in other areas if you know what I mean.
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