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writes:I use to know this girl,, we we're just friends, kissed a few times but nothing more then that, anyway i got into a relationship with a different girl and everything was great, a year later, i find myself still madly in love with my girlfriend but i bumped into the old friend when i was out drinking and found all these old feeling rushing back, now i find myself thinking about her all the time, i dont know what to do, im not sure if i love her, or if i just want what i cant have? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (8 October 2012):
 I doubt that you love her, it is probably just a case that when you saw her you remembered how you used to feel and now you cannot get her out of your mind because you are yearning for the past. But you need to look at the present. Put the fun factor back in to your relationship, go on dates, do fun things together and just enjoy each others company again, these feelings will soon pass in time. Just avoid this old friend.
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reader, GrimmReality  +, writes (8 October 2012):
 You are young....best to think real hard if pining for somebody you bumped into is fair to your GF. These things have a way of coming back to bite you in the arse so you would probably be better off letting your GF know what happened..because honesty is always the best policy.
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