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Still a virgin at 18 and I'm masturbating to porn sites! I need sex! What can I do?

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Question - (1 October 2006) 10 Answers - (Newest, 17 November 2009)
A female , *heresa writes:

I am a virgin at 18 and i am having strong sexual urges. my boyfriend is in another country and i see him next year. I am now into ponographic sites and masturbating. I need sex. what to do?

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A male reader, hot baby United States +, writes (17 November 2009):

you know having sex with the right person who torches you emotional is the best thing one will ever dream of. i will beg you to stay clam and wait for your boyfriend if you truly love him.

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A male reader, sureboy Nigeria +, writes (27 December 2008):

well i will rather advice you to find a partner and by doing so you will be able to have sex whenever you wish instead of you sleeping around with different guys cuz its very dangerous.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2008):

i need to get a better partner.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2008):

just relax...and wait...it'll be worth the wait...dont worry...everything happens for a reason...that's the way god planned it...no need to rush things...it'll happen at the right time...for now, dont worry about it...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2007):

It is worth waiting...... look for the right man and marry him. Sex outside marriage is absolute rubbush. you would have finished the fun before marriage. try if u can.... my candid advice.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2007):

why dont you get your self a dildo. untill your boyfreind comes back and that would fufill your sexual urges

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A male reader, JonC +, writes (2 October 2006):

Hello, I work for a television company and we’re making a Channel 4 documentary about the experiences of people who have decided that they want to lose their virginity. I saw your posting and thought you may be interested in what we are doing.

It will be a sensitive documentary, following the different experiences of people as they go about getting their first sexual experience. We’re particularly interested in:

• New ways that people plan to lose their virginity; from searching for a partner online, to going on holiday in order to find a partner.

• People whose family and friends are helping them to lose their virginity.

I am currently looking for people who may be interested in being involved with the film, so if the above relates to you or someone you know I would be really grateful if you could get in touch, in complete confidence, with Jon on 0207 907 0889 or Jess on 0207 907 0868 or email [email address blocked]

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2006):

Try to envlove your boyfriend in your masterbation. He may be feeling exactly the same way. you could do it over the phone by text or cybersex. This will be enjoyable for both of you and keep both of your sexual urges under contol. hope i helped :)

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A female reader, i no how u feel Australia +, writes (2 October 2006):

How long have you been with your boyfriend? How serious is it? Maybe you could consider organising a romantic holiday and going to see him? Or maybe he could come back and see you for a weekend? I guess it depends on how far away you are from each other and your financial situation. If you really love him then please don't cheat on him. If you feel that is the only option then do the honest thing and break up with him first. Believe me you don't want your first time to be a random one night stand save it for someone special. Goodluck

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A female reader, Toria +, writes (1 October 2006):

Toria agony auntDo you love your boyfriend and want to be with him? If the answer is yes then you need to stay committed and faithful to him no matter what arges you are experiancing, long distance relationships can work if your feelings are strong enough to get through the tough moments.

Porn sites are fine if it helps you to release the sexual arges you are having although be careful as these sites and what you get from them have been know to be addictive and there is such a thing as a porn addiction.

Have you and your boyfriend tried phone sex? If not it is worth a try as you will fulfil your arges and his aswell as getting some attention and affection from your boyfriend sharing something intimate and special together, also easing the worries and pressure when you are both finally ready to actually have sex.

Good luck :o)

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