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Squirting issues

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Question - (30 September 2012) 9 Answers - (Newest, 5 October 2012)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Ok, so my wife and I have a really healthy sexual relationship. We love trying new things. She has came to like squirting as much as me. We was watching some porn and a girl started cumming and white stuff was oozing out of her. We are trying to figure out how to make this happen! Is it cervical stimulation that makes it happen? Can anyone help?

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A female reader, AuntyEm United Kingdom +, writes (5 October 2012):

AuntyEm agony auntAs Judge Judy say:

If something doesn't sound right, it's usually because it isn't true.

I think this is a fake question.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2012):

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Actually I have made every girl I have been with squirt. It's one of the most amazing things to see. I am completely fascinated by the female orgasm and I strive to give her the best almost every time. I can actually make ANY girl squirt in 3 minutes or less. And it doesnt even have to involve my penis. Although it seems to intensify the orgasm when I do use it

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (3 October 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntSQUIRTING is not fake. even I have done it once...

SQUIRTING WHITE STUFF is fake.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2012):

Wow. I am surprised that so many seem to think squirting is fake.

Yes porn is staged and yes porn is exaggerated....but squirting is real and is definitely not the woman peeing on herself.

I know from experience but this has only happened with one of my partners. I will tell you....tons of foreplay is a must. The woman must be relaxed (not even thinking about squirting) and the man DEFINITELY has to hit her g-spot or it will not happen. If you insert your finger in the woman (palm-up) and move ur finger in an upward "come here" motion you should feel a very soft, almost squishy, area. Stimulate this area, then both of you just enjoy it without thinking of anything else. It'll happen. I have soaked thru sheets and blankets....so I know!!! Lol. And ps...I am not a porn star just someone who is completely comfortable and completely in love with her partner. :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2012):

Actually I thought it was all fake as well until I became a squirter. I began having sex at 17 but was never in tune with my own sexual needs until I got married (25 years old) now there are certain sex moves I cant do because I know he'll hit my spot and I'll squirt like crazy.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2012):

oh my, sorry to burst your bubble, but that's staged, fake, and not what really happens IRL.

Squirting in porn movies is women letting their bladder go, they are peeing. They are not having an orgasm.

It's wonderful you and your wife have a healthy and apparently active sex life! Expand, explore, etc. with each other, not unrealistic fake crap in porn...you will be disappointed.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (30 September 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntya gotta put white stuff in her to get white stuff to ooze out...

I suggest whipped cream....

(not really that's like setting her up for a yeast infection where she will ooze white stuff but she will burn and itch and be really angry with you)

like the wise posters before me said... porn is movies... it's make believe...

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (30 September 2012):

For the most part, a lot of this is fake, or cleverly edited. I wouldn't waste your time trying to make that happen. You're much better off just trying to give her an orgasm instead.

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A female reader, AuntyEm United Kingdom +, writes (30 September 2012):

AuntyEm agony auntI don't know if you realise but a lot of what you see in porn films is simulated and overly exaggerated. What you are watching isn't real and some special effects are used to make it seem that woman can do 'interesting' and 'outlandish' things with their bodies...when the truth is that almost all women cannot.

If you saw superman in a movie, would you expect that your wife could fly from jumping off a chair?...Nope...because what you are seeing is fake.

Probably best to find out what is normal when a woman cums and then enjoy that...because it's real and possible.

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