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writes:How do I get over my ex?We went out for five years and I would have given the world for him.Things have been a bit rocky for a while now and we had a blazing row about 8 weeks ago.basically he hadn't spent any time with me for weeks as we dont live together , I have been trying to get him to commit for a long time after moving myself and son across the country to be near him.Basically I wanted to go out for a night out with him and his friends, he said it was a lads night and then caused such as ruckus that it was obvious he didnt want me to come.he then said in front of my son his dad didnt want him, that I was taking the piss out of his mum by asking her to babysit, and then threw his laptop and smashed it on the floor in front of my lad.The comments and the aggresion upset him deeply and we were both crying and went home.We went home terrified, he went out with mates. I was so upset and had a few glasses of wine and put a profile on an internet dating site.It basically described how I wanted commitment and not to revolve around Sky Sports.I did it as an outlet. I never spoke to anyone and certainly didnt meet anyone.My boyfriend failed to take me out for lunch next days which was Mothers Day as too hung over.Then few days later he said a friend found profile and he dumped me without giving me chance to explain. Have told him only did it as an outlet as he made me feel worthless and unwanted and like he was ashamed of me.he wouldnt even have a face to face chat. he dumped me by phone then when I rang he called me a hooker and said I had touted myself on net.I find out two days ago he has a new girlfriend. He says he still loves me but we dont work and will unlove me!I am gutted. Cant eat or sleep. I love him and would try and work through this but he obviously doesnt want to.Any advice would be appreciated.
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reader, hlskitten + ♥, writes (7 May 2008):
 Hi
He's not giving you what you want. The joining a dating site was a cry for attention! Not unusual. It wasn't right, but neither is him putting his mates before you and your son. You come as a package and he doesn't sound like he is capeable of stepping up to the mark where thats concerned.
And he didn't hang about to move on did he?
Hard for you to see i know, but i reakon you're actually better off without him, and your son is. You can meet someone thats ready for you both.
Its normal to remember the good times when you have split with someone, but you need to keep focusing on the bad times. I bet thyere was a fair few!
You and your son deserve better.
C xxxxx
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