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writes: Me and and my boyfriend have been going out for almost three months now and everything was great until one of friends came along. Yesterday during fourth period his friend said to me "He wants to dump you."I just said "sure" and went along with it.Later on i asked him if he wanted to break up.He was a bit confused and said "NO!?!" So i found out his friend was lying{as usual}.I was pretty mad but relieved at the same time. The next day it happened again and this time there was one witness.I believed it of course and was pretty damn sad and mad.I was so mad i gave my boyfriend the cold shoulder. But i just had to know if it was true or not.So i called him after school and we finally got things straight.But i really want to get back at his friend so he would finally learn a lesson.
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reader, tinkerbell +, writes (6 January 2006):
I think you should start trusting your boyfriend not his friends! What goes on between you and your boyfriend is between the two of you and nobody else's business!Ignore what his friends are saying to you and tell your boyfriend how their lies and interference upsets you. It should bring you closer.What ever you do don't fight over it - or his friends will have won! Just keep calm and be assured that if he wanted to break up with you he would, and just enjoy your time together.Good luck
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (6 January 2006):
 The best way to handle childish friends is not to respond to the bait. If you try to "get back" at him, you're only stooping to his level, aren't you?
Forget the harebrained scheming and "teaching him a lesson" and all that rot. That rubbish belongs on the playground, and you're too grown up for that. Instead, next time he tries to get you hyped up over a lie, you reply, "I have a hard time believing that, since you're such a poor liar". Then walk away.
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