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writes: My boyfriend and I started having sex early on in the relationship and we have been pretty careful so far. Recently he came inside of me, because as he says he got caught up in it. We have also been having a little trouble in the relationship, because I am still in university and I am not ready for a child or marriage. The next time we were having sex he said that when he had come the last time that it was a mistake but if he did again it wouldn't be. He even told me that he would make no attempt to pull out. Since then I must admit that my feelings for him have changed, and though I still crave being with him, I have decided to put an end to the relationship because I no longer trust him. Also he destroyed the first gift which he gave me as a token of love. He slammed it on a wall while I stood and looked on. I don't see how I can ever trust him again.
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (12 July 2006):
 Does he want children is this what all this is about and you dont ? I dont know why he would act like this its a bit strange if he will knowling allow this to happen knowing you could get pregnant. Why dont you start taking the pill than, or get him to use a condom, the withdrawel method is not as safe as some might think, precum can still make you pregnant! So no matter when he pulls out this can still happen!
As for the toy was it an argument ?
You need to ask him why hes behaving like this first off and see what triggered it, have a chat and if you cant resolve it and your scared and dont trust him you mave have to think about moving on, as hes not being very responsible and concerning of your needs or welfare.
Take care x
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2006): Why did he destroy the gift? Also, have u never heard of a condom or BC pill?
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