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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:i slept with this guy for first time and he said he liked it now he wont return my texts at all why
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female
reader, SerenadeStarsRocks +, writes (23 April 2010):
 its was kinda a one night stand.
. sorry I couldnt be much help.
I would of kick his a**. but its best to cut all contact
with him urself now if he just used u for sex.
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female
reader, raiders +, writes (22 April 2010):
 Talk to him in person confront him it might be a misunderstanding and he meant to reply or he just used you for sex got what he wanted and moved on. I suggest that you talk to him personally and find out whats going on. Please keep us posted.
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reader, Manya +, writes (22 April 2010):
Your question is very hard to answer because, as TalkingHelps has noticed, too,
we don't have a way to get a perspective on the situation. First of all, please tell us, how long -- hours, days? -- has it been since you slept together? They say that a man is supposed to be in touch, one way or another, the day after just
because of the deep emotional feelings, even if for one reason or another, he
doesn't want to be serious or keep going. If the guy hasn't responded in a day or so, then I think a.) he is a creep or b.) perhaps he is in real trouble - sick, family illness, accident. OR there's also the possibility that his cell phone is dead or something, or that he tried but there has been technical difficulty of some time - or he thought he left a response but it didn't go through. (?) I would try a real phone call rather than a text to give him a chance and try to figure it out.
What do you think? Please let us Aunts know!
I hope you get some kind of answer from him.
Best wishes,
Manya
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male
reader, Myau  +, writes (22 April 2010):
 There isnt anything you can really do sadly. Just chalk it upto experence
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female
reader, msjuicy +, writes (22 April 2010):
 cause he's a jerk maybe he was begging for it and you gave it to him without thinking
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2010): He played you... I'm sorry to say. Good guys will wait.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2010): I don't know why they allowed you to post this when we have no background data on this guy, ,where you met him, how long you knew him? So how are we meant to reply usefully.
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male
reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (22 April 2010):
I'm really sorry, but you've been used by him for sex. You need to move on from him now, and cut all contact.
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