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writes: hi there, I would really like some help on a current situation :) basically I have been working at a summer camp for 3 months, I met a guy there but I did not really notice him until the final month. I started to get to know him and I developed a crush on him. he is really shy and I don't really know how to approach shy guys. anyway it was my final week last week and he was going away e I thought as i night not see him again I would give number. it was really nice we were working together on our final day and we were just laughing with each other and just stare into.each others eyes and smiling.I said we had a reunion for the stuff coming up and then it would be neet if he came and then I gave him my number. but because he is shy and I didn't want to freak him out I just said they would be nice if he came and to contact me. I know I didn't really ask him out but it's been 4 days since we spoke and I have not heard do you think that he's not interested in me or is it just that he's away? thanks :+) xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2016): Thanks Cindy,
it is nice to have feedback and help :)
I think I will give it a few more days and if not I think it will be fine he has my contact details. I'm certainly not going to push anything but it would be nice to hear from him so fingers crossed.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (15 July 2016):
 It's hard to say. It's only 4 days !, and, as you say, you haven't exactly asked him out, just suggested to keep in touch some time . Let's say , 50/50. It may be simply because he is away , busy with his stuff, - or, well, the fact that he is shy does not mean that he must be interested. He could be shy and not interested (:
I think anyway that you have handled it well. You haven't hit on him heavily, which could freak out a shy guy regardless, even if he were interested - but you have served him on a silver platter the perfect reason ( reunion ) to get back to you and take it from there.
Sigh... I guess you'll just have to wait a few more days and see what happens. You can give him a little " push " if, when you have the time and location of this reunion, YOU send him a reminder " Hey Bill, I confirm that the camp staff is getting together on..., I really do hope I'll see you then ! ".
He may be not a big texter in the meantime, or not an initiator in general,- but , if he knows that you want to see him, where and when- if he is even slightly interested, he will make sure to show up .
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