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writes:My husband is 25 years old we have always had a great sex life. Recently we up and moved to the other side of the country for his job. About 3 months after moving he totally lost his sex drive! I dont know if it is me or what, we have talked about it and he says he thinks something is wrong but he will not go to the doctor. I just dont know if it is me he is not attracted to or what but it really worries me and i want more than anything to please him. What to do????
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reader, rambini  +, writes (17 April 2010):
 a new job is bound to have him worried and stressed, and moving house is pretty stressful too. you two should spend an evening together, go out for a meal, or a nice walk, go to the cinema, whatever you fancy, even stay in and cook a nice candlelit meal, rent a movie, just spend quality, relaxed time in each others company. maybe offer him a massage or run him a bath. hopefully if he is relaxed and enjoying your company, things will go from there!! just try to be supportive, men are very sensitive about their manliness!!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (17 April 2010):
 It could be the stress ,worries, over worked, not enough rest or sleep and the lack of exercise.
It could also be poor nutritions.Get him to eat those foods which are rich in zinc which can increase his libido. Make sure he gets plenty of rest.
It has got nothing to do with you .
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (17 April 2010):
Chances are it's stress and nerves. It won't be you. It's never the woman, it's always something else that causes this. Usually it's stress. But there's nothing you can do unless he will get himself checked.
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