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Since we broke up, porn is doing nothing for me!

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Question - (22 November 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 22 November 2008)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

OK, this is a bit of a strange question. Whenever I'm not in a relationship, I masturbate/watch porn with a normal frequency (say something slightly less than daily). When I'm in a relationship that drops significantly (maybe weekly or even more infrequently), even if I not having sex.

Now that I have broken up with my girlfriend (about 2 weeks ago), why is that I don't have the desire to masturbate/watch porn and that it is increasingly difficult to climax when I do? I haven't had this problem with previous break ups. Do others experience this as well?

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A female reader, superbunny United Kingdom +, writes (22 November 2008):

superbunny agony auntMaybe you're a little upset about the break up and it's effecting your mood therefore it's not as easy to masturbate?

Personally, I masturbate so much more when I'm in a relationship because there's someone you know you can actually have sex with who wants you and isn't just a hot actor or model - if that makes sense?

It might be a girl thing, but I hope it might help. :)

xx

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A male reader, coldmist182 United Kingdom +, writes (22 November 2008):

coldmist182 agony auntthis has happened to me before. its just because you have so much on your mind right now, it will soon clear up. before i was told when you masturbate.. you sub consiously imagine someone you really like without even knowing it and the fact that you have just broke up is clashing with you wanting to masturbate while sub consiously thinking of her

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