I was good friends with 2 sisters and we spent every weekend together. However they are now living with their b/fs so I don't see them anymore. Over the last 7 months I have seen them 3 times. All I get now is a e-mail maybe once a week, I have stop e-mailing myself as I don't want to be friends anymore. I only reply to an e-mails and say very little about myself. I have been asked by one of them why I don't e-mail or keep in contact. I replied saying that e-mail wasn't a proper friendship to me. I got a load of excuses thrown back at me. So my reply was you ask the question I'm just being honest and telling you how I feel and not to worry about it,I will deal with it myself. She doesn't see where i'm coming from.
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reader, Enzian +, writes (23 July 2007):Hi there
You seem to be a little jealous? Well, I really do understand you, as this happend to me with my friends and brothers as well. I know it's hard, especially if one wishs to have a boyfriend oneselfe...
But don't but your head in the sand. Try to be friends with others and enjoy spending time with your new friends. This will help a lot and you will get more independent. Because one day, you all will life at different places, maybe different countries and you will be very, very happy to get at least aChristmas card from them. This is not very funny, but it is what life is and hope it will not be like this for you! But to avoid happen this one day, you should not stopp e-mailing them and tell them only little about you. Because if you stopp, they will not know why you stopped. So they think you are not interested in them and they will get lazy about e-mailing and it will slowly end in talk. This would be very sad!
So I would recommend you to send them e-mails, telling them about you and asking them questions about how they are and what they do and suggesting them meetings and spending time together. Tell them both about how you feel and maybe you can ask for seeing them at least once a month? Tell them how much you love them and how much you would enjoy to spend time with them.
Hope this helps a little!
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reader, flower girl +, writes (23 July 2007):If she does not get where you are coming from, then give up altogether if you are not bothered about having contact with them anymore.
Just don't reply to any emails.
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