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Since my friend came out I've been wondering if I'm gay too

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Question - (17 May 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 May 2010)
A male Canada age 30-35, *oldstove writes:

ever since my frend had came and told me that she was bi sexual i have been haveing weard feelings. this mad me think about being gay and now that i got the idea in my mind i cant get it out i keep fatiscizeing about gay sex. im not shure if its just a phase or if it means im gay. thanks

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2010):

Firstly, do you fancy girls ? You most probably do but have you ever thought a guy was hot? If not then if I was you I'd watch some videos of gays kissing or even having sex (if you want) if your attracted to it there might be a chance your gay ir bisexual but you need to experiment with these feelings to be 100% sure! Hope this helps! Best if luck!

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A male reader, Boonridge McPhalify United Kingdom +, writes (18 May 2010):

Boonridge McPhalify agony auntif its only a recent thing then i think its just that this subject happenes to be topical in your life and you see an opportunity for exploration. if however you were having fantasies of gay sex long before your friend came out then that sounds like there is more substance to these fantasies.

if it is a long term thing you might be gay, if its only since your friend came out maybe your just bored and interested in your friend.

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A male reader, iamgay1995 United States +, writes (17 May 2010):

you probably just think you are gay. when your friend admitted he was gay you probably let it get to you. if you are gay it is okay dont let it get to you. i had obsessions over gay sex as well but i know it will ware off once i get older and first have sex. just dont worry too much.

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