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female
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30-35,
*jaycx
writes:My boyfriend and I have been living together for almost a year and im beggining to think that were just having sex because its routine now. It seems to be when we go to bed and because we sleep naked we just have sex. Its lost its excitment of undressing ang for play. Its all routine now where he plays with me and then slips it in. Or if I want the sex ill play with him then go on top. Any ideas to make things exciting again! I feel like sex is a chore now?! :( Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2009): i feel your pain and for me its been that way for 6 years and i would say every once in a while we have that exciting first time sex but it is very rare now and it feel like a job has to be done so lets do it lol
but i went out with my man to a strip club and i am a striaght woman and never even considerd going to a strip club but we did and i had a few drink nothing to get me to gone and when we got home it waw on that worked for me maybe you should give it a try
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2009): Plan to have sex every day for the next 30 days but the catch is that you cannot have sex in the same way twice. It will force you to get creative and work together. Buy a copy of the Karma Sutra? A sexy new outfit? Maybe try teasing him, getting him all hot and heavy then....just stop and go on as if you werent doing anything and repeat the pattern several times throughout the night before giving in. The tension leading up to the main event will feel great.
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