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writes:So bear with me its a little bit of a long story. I recently (3 months ago) started a new job. I made fast friends with one of the guys I work with. He's 3 years older than me (21). Well every day that we work together he is always super helpful and we talk for hours about life, school, movies, pretty much random things. He is always turning up where I am in the store even though we work on different sides. He is always joking around with me and stuff. Well as the story always goes I really like him. He said something the other day like "you're the first person I think of when I get home, I always check your FB message and tell you my life story and you're always like 'and I need to know this why'" He kids around about hanging out and stuff but never directly asks or makes plans. We message a lot on FB but he has never asked for my number. There are times where it seems like he really likes me and then other times I am really confused. On valentines day he left work at 4 I got there at 3:30 well he came back to work to make an online order I was the one to do it, he hung around for a while and we talked. then he said "there is something else I needed to ask you." he paused for at least 10 seconds and then said "is this your folder?" and pointed to the folder randomly on the counter. I can't tell if he is shy, just wants to be friends or what. He sends all these mixed signals.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (21 February 2014):
 I am thinking you like him and he likes you enough.
How about YOU ask him out.... maybe ask him if he wants to get some coffee or something when you are done with work.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2014): i think he likes you, hun. but he's shoy. the fact that he paused shows it. when he paused, did he look around?
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