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Should my girlfriend's bizarre fantasy worry me?

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Question - (26 June 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 16 July 2009)
A male United States age 41-50, *annio128 writes:

Should I be concerned?

I am 41 with a HOT 26 year old fiancee.

We have always had GREAT sex. Recently, she told me about a fantasy that she has had almost every time we have sex since the beginning.

See...I have a 22 year old son that lives with me.

In her fantasy, she is a friend of my sons...and she goes to her "buddys" house to hang out and ends up F*cking his dad.

Would this worry u as a guy?

Girls...what do u think?

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A female reader, mawm United States +, writes (16 July 2009):

Hey, it takes a lot of trust to share a fantasy, especially if it's something kind of 'different'. If I get it right, your son is her "buddy" in her fantasy and she goes to his house and has sex with his Dad---you.

Flattery plus, illicit; I think it's a classic fantasy, being seduced and overpowered by a powerful older man. Go for it.

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A female reader, Olivia(Y). United Kingdom +, writes (28 June 2009):

Olivia(Y). agony auntIts not a twisted fantasy..

Why not act it out?? It might be fun and something new to try out in your sex life.

I don't think it would worry me if my fiancee told me this.

Livia

xoxox

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (26 June 2009):

Honeypie agony auntSeems odd to me. But I don't think it's too twisted. She does seem to like her men older and that is partly why she is with you.

Trust me when I say I have heard WAY WAY kinkier dreams. Hers is on the mild side.

Fantasies are MAKE-believe. It doesn't mean she want to live them out.

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A male reader, NightLad Canada +, writes (26 June 2009):

NightLad agony auntAs others have said, don't let it bother you. The next time she says it, which may even be to shock you, why not respond with, "If you like my son I'm twice as fun!" ;)

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A female reader, Klara France + , writes (26 June 2009):

lol. no .

she likes older guys, the more experienced of the family i guess...

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A female reader, betty_black United Kingdom +, writes (26 June 2009):

betty_black agony auntNo, thats perfectly normal. Its like a porn scene or something! I wouldnt worry about that at all, in fact id go ahead and happily do it!

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