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Should I wait for my on-again off-again love?

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Question - (24 August 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 August 2008)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

here's the story... this girl like me ever since elementary days. i didn't notice her then and by high school she has moved to sacramento. One summer she comes back home for vacation with her family and we somehow got introduced, i forgot how though. so we had a fling for les then two weeks. she flys back to washington and we kept in contact for about a month. some guy claims her as her GF even though we were talking. all of a sudden she severed all contact with me.. and we lost contact for 4 years. through the magic of internet she finds me after 4 years. she's currently in love with her boyfriend who also proposed to her but she said she wasn't ready. we had a talk about what happened that summer 4 years ago and how we really felt about each other. she's coming back again next summer for another vacation but she don't know if she's going to be with her current BF. she has feelings for me and i do for her... should i wait for her still?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2008):

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thanks bellachick385... we talked about our situation recently and that was one of the exact things she has told me. just wanted to get outside responses.

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A female reader, bellachic385 +, writes (25 August 2008):

bellachic385 agony auntI would say there is a possibility of something more happening again. If she isn't ready to get married and she found you online then there's a chance.

She is still with him though so don't get you hopes too high and don't let this prevent you from seeing something else if someone great comes along.

I wish you the best.

If it is ment to be it will happen.

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