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Should I wait for my ex to be ready for a relationship again?

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Question - (21 March 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 22 March 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Alright, its been like 3 months since my ex and i broke up, We've been together for a year then out of the blue BAM went down the drain :/. Soo anyways she wants me to wait for her but its my choice if i want to or not. She also wants me to stay close and stuff. From my point of view, she just wants to have fun, shes with her friends 24/7 and just plain out having fun. Shes 15 and im 17. I just don't know if i can wait any longer. I stopped talking to her a few days now because i just couldnt wait any longer :/ for her... I've been reading articles and stuff, they all said just stop talking to her for a month and talk to her after that. Maybe she'll realize that month she misses you and realize all those great with me yada yada. I just don't know what to do at the moment :/ any help/ advice out there?

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A female reader, Entirely Unique United Kingdom +, writes (22 March 2010):

Entirely Unique agony auntBy her realising you are what she wants and actually does something about it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2010):

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How can i see her react to it?

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A female reader, Entirely Unique United Kingdom +, writes (22 March 2010):

Entirely Unique agony auntI think its unfair she's asked you to wait for her, I know she's given you the choice that you don't have to but by her asking you to wait you do get left with the thoughts that she is coming back and waiting is what you should do.

She seems like she is getting the best of all worlds here, she's got freedom and going out alot while keeping you waiting for her for when she's done with all this, if after this she does decide you are what she wants that is, and she is keeping you close so she doesn't lose that side of it as well.

I would cut the contact and give it some time, see how she reacts to this, if this doesn't seem to shake her into realising what she wants then I think it would be best you let go for good.

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